X'mas and New Year Season!!

Well it’s been a few days… Let me write abt wat’s been happening…

25/12/08 (Christmas)

Had a small “Santa came to our home” celeb with de kids… We wrapped presents the night before, me and my sis, and placed them by the ent of the house. Ivy was the first to get up and started looking ard for the prezzies… But got a bit upset when she thot Santa didn’t come by cos she had not been a good gal…  But later saw the presents by the door.. Then she woke up Phoe and they opened up their presents..


Later in the aftn, I went to visit Mi and also Ket... Very tough moment as X'mas is her fav time.. and i could hold her to wish her "Merry X'mas" Couldn't cry much as Sathish was there too.. Hope she liked watever we gave her..

The in de evening, we (Kids, sis and myself) went to Priya's place for a X'mas cum Brithday bash... Had lotsa fun... Small group thus could really have fun.. :)) Her X'mas tree was very pretty as you can see...




26/12/08 (Boxing Day)

Boxing day was pretty quiet as i was back to work.. In de evening went for a movie, Silambattam with Mi, Kanages and Mi's mom... A very typical movie with a typical storyline... But the songs are nice... After which, we took the train to AMK from which i took a cab back...

27/12/08

Woke up in the late morn.. hung out with kids and at abt 6pm made my way to Mi's place to hang out as her mom wasn't ard... We just chilled and toked nonsense... Also caught Jodi No 1 there as Surya was the special guest.. haizzzz... He looked sooo fine!! haizzz... Then at abt late 9pm.. we headed to no 5 for some martinis, pizza and chicken wings.. Would love to post pics.. but the pics are with Mi and she takes 4ever to upload... :( Mt up with kanages there and left for Chaks at abt 11.30pm... Met my sis at the ent and had a nite not to be forgotten.. Not all good thou.. haizzzz.. But let's not dwell on tat...

28/12/08

Only woke up in the aftn.. But was truly a lazy day at hm.. did nothing but laze with de kids... played games.. computer... dinner and slept again :)) Love days like dis...

Other than the above, which mentions what i did... Today is the 29th of December 2008... 2 more days to year end... One more day to the start of my leave.. Weeeeee can't wait.. When the end of the year comes, everyone toks abt resolutions... wat's the use of making resolutions if you can't keep them?? I am not gonna make resolutions but am gonna attempt to do a few things... These are the stuff i plan to do :

1) Cut down smoking starting 2009 and hopefully quit by Iv's B'day which is on 10th February 2009.

2) Start living a healthier lifestyle... Hmmm... My current lifestyle is a heart attack waiting to happen.. Need to start a exercise routine, something small la... need to watch my alcohol intake and my diet... Need to live for many more years to come...

3) Control temper.. Haizzz the hardest... well i can try....

Kethrine Andrew

My second post to this blog was suppossed to be abt frens... All the frens i have made... But I have changed my mind and wanna tok abt one in particular... Kethrine Andrew... The fren i knew for abt 3-4 years and loved as a sister....

Born on 28 September 1982, my Kethrine Andrew, took her life at the age of 26 years... on 8th November 2008... She was and is a dear fren... A beautiful gal... In and Out... someone who brought a smile to every1 she met.. A smile one can nvr forget... Our very own sunshine...

This post is dedicated to her... I am not gonna tok abt y she did wat she did... but rather the wonderful fren and sister she was to me... Ket was well known for her craziness... The stupid jokes she made... The dumb things she did.... There were so many times when we just playing games at home that she will crack us up with dumb stuff.. Like this one time when we were playing bluff Ket placed 5 aces on the deck when a deck only has 4 aces... Or the times, when she will fight over which chair to sit on... She was full of life, zest and joy... She will nvr be forgotten.. She is our very own guardian angel...

Everyone has a purpose for being on this life... Ket has fulfilled hers... She was here, at least in my opinion, to put a smile on the face of every person she met.... She was called back becos from wat i heard... 26 years ago, the angels up there stopped smiling and on 8th November 2008... They have once again started cos The most beautiful angel ever has rejoined them....

The start...

As the first post of my blog... I wanna tok abt only happy moments... So this will be a intro to my life...

Born on 26 May 1980, I have lived 28 years of my life on this earth... And my achievements?? Hmmm... These two...

Ivynshvary aka Ivy is 6 years and Phoeniix Raj aka Phoe is 4... The loves of my life... Many might argue having children is not an achievement... I totally agree ... My achievement is the way they have been raised... They are absolute angels... At this point i will like to offer my sincere thanks to all who have been instrumental in their Upbringing... THANKS!!

At this point I must mention my family... My Sis.. Shubashini aka Ms Chucky... The one who has been with me for the past 21 years.. giving me all the encouragement I need to carry on with life... We have had our sisterly squabbles... But nothing can break the bond i have for her...

I am a simple person... I have wants and wishes as everyone... but i dun sit down n cry if i dun get them... i move on... I stand by the phrase that Life is beautiful... Live it to the fullest... I dun wanna wake up one day with regrets...

I absolutely adore frens... Frens who are important ... If you are a fren to me... I will be there for you in your time of need... Dunno y but that is who I am... This topic shd have a post of it's own so my next post will be on friends!!

I believe that the biggest wrong a person can do is to hurt someone intentionally... I am not saying i have nvr done it... But i try my damn hardest not to... There's more abt me.. So more posts are necessary... I am not a Angel but I am no Devil either... I am just Rathika... mother to Ivy and Phoe.. :))